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Boredom is Good for You and Your Mental Health

Have you heard? Boredom is good for you. Yes, truly, I mean it: boredom is good for you. Really. Not only does it improve mental health, it also opens up space within you for creativity and self-compassion to emerge. In fact, boredom can be a way to step back from the noise and the grind…

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Being vs. Doing: Lessons from a Summer Moon

Never could I have imagined that the moon had a lesson for me that day about being vs. doing. And little did we know what was waiting for us as we got in the car and started our journey home. You see, it had been a long day of doing. In fact, on the scales…

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Time Scarcity and Time Anxiety: 6 Ways to Shift the Story

Time scarcity and time anxiety are alive and well. After many years as a therapist and coach working mostly with women, it’s clear to me that there’s a direct link between time scarcity and anxiety. While there’s much more available information and awareness of the issue than in the past, the lived experience of it…

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How to Walk Away from Over-Responsibility

I’ve seen women insist on cleaning everything in the house before they could sit down… and you know it’s a funny thing… it never comes to an end. Perfect way to stop a woman. A woman must be careful to not allow over-responsibility…to steal her necessary creative rests, riffs, and raptures. –Clarissa Pinkola Estes The…

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